When I initially signed up for ljmatch, not all of my lj friends were showing up, so I changed my lj-match info to show various gender combinations and various relationship/meeting combinations. Please note that my text in the system has always been:
I'm happily married but curious how this system would match me with people in various ways. I'm a geek. I like people around, but alot of time to myself. I tend to do things "my own way".
So please understand I am only looking for friends in case there is any misunderstanding.